Duo not missing Mary’s Walk again (Printed March 12, 2010)
By Gillian
Graham
Staff Writer
A year ago, Louise Hurlbutt sat in a hospital
isolation unit, holding a team hat in her hands while friends walked to raise
money in her honor.
This year, Hurlbutt, 67, will speak about her
experiences with breast cancer before taking to the road in the 12th
annual Mary’s Walk in Saco. By her side will be friend and fellow Kennebunk
business owner Bonnie Clement, who is undergoing treatment for stage 2 breast
cancer.
Hurlbutt, who owns Hurlbutt Designs in Kennebunk’s
Lower Village, was diagnosed with an aggressive form of stage 2 breast cancer
last year, on the same day her sister was diagnosed with cancer. Clement, 57,
was diagnosed in August with the same form of cancer and both women underwent
treatment that included surgery, chemotherapy, radiation and an experimental
drug. Using the drug elevated their cure rate to 85 percent, Hurlbutt said.
“We are very fortunate this is our diagnosis,” she
said. “We’ve been able to hold on to hope, to say we can do this.”
Hurlbutt and Clement said they want to help others
by sharing their stories of battling cancer. Emphasizing the importance of
early detection through digital mammograms and raising money for research are
essential to finding a cure for cancer and saving lives, they said.
All money from Mary’s Walk and the Kerrymen Pub
Road Race benefits the Maine Cancer Foundation in Portland. The event is
scheduled to begin at 10 a.m. Sunday at Thornton Academy with registration and
a community gathering for life featuring Gov. John Baldacci and Hurlbutt.
Mary’s Walk is named for Mary Jude Kerry Libby,
from Saco who died of cancer
on March 7, 1997. Since its inception, the event has raised more than $1.2
million for cancer research in Maine.
The Kennebunk community, friends, clients and family
all have donated money to Team Hurlbutt and HB Provisions, many donating in
memory of family members with cancer, Hurlbutt said. Team Hurlbutt was the top
fundraising team for last year’s event and brought in $13,900.
Keeping research money in Maine is an important
aspect of the event, said Peter King, manager of special events for the cancer
foundation.
“The community really rallies around family and
friends to support the mission of the Maine Cancer Foundation,” he said. “It’s
local people supporting local research.”
In addition to supporting local research, the
community turned out in force to support Hurlbutt and Clement. Hurlbutt said
that kind of support is needed as patients navigate through a period that is
emotionally and physically draining.
“You ride these waves up and down of emotion,” she
said.
While Hurlbutt was undergoing treatment, a friend
created a healing garden in front of her business. Another friend brought
balloons and a dart gun to her house after each chemotherapy session as a fun
way to count down treatments, she said.
Though often left exhausted by treatments, Hurlbutt
said she chose to embrace the gifts she was given with her cancer diagnosis.
After her first treatment, she came home to find an e-mail from her son with a
photo of his newly shaved head.
Her son also moved his wife and baby daughter to
Maine for three months so Hurlbutt could spend time with them during
treatments. Her daughter drove from New York City to Maine for each of her
mother’s chemotherapy treatments.
For Clement, the cancer journey provided gifts in
the forms of a renewed friendship and discovery of her strength while facing a
difficult situation. A friend who had drifted away is the “biggest gift”
because she came back and has stood by Clement’s side since the beginning of
treatment, which is expected to end in August, she said.
Clement said it seemed as if doctors were talking
about someone else as they explained her cancer diagnosis. After shedding a few
tears, she said she decided to educate herself on treatment options and focus
on getting better. She went straight to Hurlbutt for advice and was seeing the
same doctor at Mercy Hospital within days.
“You’ve got to take the bull by the horn and say
‘I’m going to be strong for myself,’” Clement said.
Throughout the past year, Clement and Hurlbutt have
found inspiration in stories they hear of other people fighting cancer.
Hurlbutt said she will walk in honor of all those who are fighting cancer,
especially her friend Beth Suzor, a Kennebunk Savings Bank employee undergoing
treatment.
“It’s grace and gratitude I want to give back to
people,” Hurlbutt said. “Hope has to be the guide for you, you can’t give up
hope. Today we’re walking for everyone who has cancer.”
They will also be celebrating.
“I’m celebrating life,” Hurlbutt said. “This is my
celebration of life.”
“It’s also a celebration of where we are with
cancer treatment today,” Clement added. “We are survivors of the treatment.
We’re living proof donating money to this cause is critical.”
Staff Writer Gillian Graham can be reached at
282-4337, ext. 213.



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